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*11.It is narrated from Imam Rida [a] that Imam Sadiq [a], in answer to a woman who wanted not to marry in order to gain a great virtue, said:
"Do not do that, because if it was a virtue, Fatimah (May God bless her and give her peace) would be more competent than you, and, surely, there
is none (of women) who can excel her in any virtue."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 219*


1.Imam Baqir [a] said: "He who takes a woman (marries) should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your
pleasure, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her (by disregarding her respectable rights)."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 224

2.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "In any condition conciliate the wives, and talk with them warmly and through kind words, thereby, they
may change their actions into good ones."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 223(g18012007)(w26042007)

3.Imam Rida [a] narrated from his fathers from Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] from the Holy Prophet [s] who said: "Woe to the woman who
makes her husband angry, and happy is the woman whose husband is pleasantly contentedwith her."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 8, p. 310(21012007)

4.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "He who has two wives and does not treat justly in dividing his self and his wealth between them, he will be raised
on the Resurrection Day while he is chained in punishment and half of his body is not straight until he enters Hell."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 7, p. 214

5.Imam Musa ibn Ja'far [a] narrated from his father [a] from the Holy Prophet [s] who said: "However much the Faith of a man increases, his
regard for women increases."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 228(09022007)

6.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "From the things of the world, I regard women and perfume highly, but prayer is the light of my eyes, (the love and
worship of Allah).
Al-Khisal, vol. 1, p. 183(20022007)


7.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "The worst man is he who restricts his household."
Nur-ul-Absar Shablanjy

Wives and Good Treatment to Their Husbands

8.Allah (s.w.t.) said: "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with
them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect."
Sura al-Room, No. 30, Verse 21(09032007)


9.When the Holy Prophet (p.b.u.k.) received some information from 'Umm Salamah about 'Uthman ibn Maz'un, he set out towards his followers
and, (addressing some of them), said: "Do you keep away from (your) wives? Surely, I go to women, I eat food during the day, and I sleep at
night. So, he who turns away from my way of life is not of me."
Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 93, p. 73(17032007)

10.Imam Sadiq [a] said: "He who abandons marriage for the fear of the expenses imposed on him, mistrusts Allah, Almighty and Glorious."
Man La Yahduruhul Faqih, vol. 3, p. 385(g23042007)